what readers have said about the book

You've done a really good job of breaking down the complex neuroscience ideas into more manageable and actionable ideas for parents. I especially like the exercises at the ends of the chapters, to move the theory into the more concrete practice domain. I have been recommending your book to peers. 

Highly effective brain-based parenting ideas presented in a user-friendly way

The experience of reading this book is like having a cozy chat over tea with a good friend who gives you encouragement, support and practical neuroscience-backed advice. This book is useful that I'm recommending this book to the parents of all my child clients!

This book offers a compassionate, eye-opening perspective on brain development and emotional regulation. The author explains complex concepts in a clear, relatable way, making it feel like a heartfelt conversation rather than a lecture. As I read, I often thought, "I wish I had this knowledge when I was raising my son." Instead of regret, it left me with self-compassion, insight and a deeper understanding of connection over perfection.

Overall, I found the book very easy to read and understand. I ended up having to read it over several weeks and it was easy to come back to and continue where I left off each time. I found it insightful and useful and I intend to reference the various suggestions when I am a parent myself.

I really enjoyed Parenting in the 21st Century. It’s such a good read and honestly a great reminder for all of us trying to raise kids in a world that feels very different from how we grew up. It’s practical, relatable, and an enjoyable read. I see value from both a parents perspective but also for an educators too. Understanding why our children behave the way they do really reminds us to empathize with their emotions and prioritize our connection. I think every parent and teacher could take something valuable from this book.

Parenting in the 21st Century provides an accessible introduction to neuro-informed parenting and highlights the importance of emotional safety in the parent–child relationship. I appreciated the emphasis on curiosity, connection, and regulation rather than quick fixes. Johanna Simmons encourages parents to slow down, look beyond behaviour, and consider what might be happening for a child emotionally and neurologically. It’s a thoughtful read for parents who want to better understand their children while reflecting on their own responses.